The Curious Incident of the Dog in the Night-Time, by Mark Haddon

Note to self: Read more British authors

I read another book recently that made me laugh and cry and wonder, but I enjoyed this book. How Haddon got into his character’s head so completely is as genius as the protagonist himself. We’re always told as writers–character first, character driven, it’s all about the character. The Curious Incident of the Dog in the Night-Time is a perfect example.

It isn’t just the protagonist, a teenage autistic genius, who is real, but his fallible parents as well. Two out my four sons have scary similarities to Christopher, so I read this book as a parent. I found myself condemning these parents’ immaturity and denseness, until I thought more carefully about my own parenting history.

Haddon makes a few plot flaws, but forgivable ones considering he couldn’t know what it’s like to parent someone like Christopher. If he has, then perhaps the gap in logic is mine.

The Curious Incident of the Dog in the Night-Time was a personal read for me, hitting a little too hard in a few places, but that only made it that much more meaningful. This is one of those fiction books that can teach us more than any non-fiction ever could. Haddon has given a clear, engaging voice to some of our population’s most misunderstood and rejected.

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The 100-Mile Diet, by Alisa Smith and J.B. MacKinnon

What a pleasant surprise.

This book rolled me in like stuffing in a fajita, a food that was deprived the authors until they found a local wheat grower. It was wonderful, with its weaving in and out of relationships and landscapes and adventure stories, but the idea of always eating strictly locally? Like it says on the back cover, “I think they’re nuts.”

Smith and MacKinnon tell us about their experiment eating only locally for one full year and how it changed the way they eat now. Obviously, eating locally can work, if your kids are used to it, or if you don’t have kids, or if you are young and able to get around readily, or if you drive, or if you know the right people. Of course, all of these obstacles can be overcome if you’re rich.

Unlike these courageous authors, I’ve been eating locally my whole life, not strictly locally, but quite a bit. I’ve had lobster and potatoes in Shediac and oranges in Florida. I learned young the difference between fresh and grocery shelf, and it’s a huge difference. I grew up in the midst of farms and ate vegetables from our little plot that I despised weeding when I was a kid, along with the evening’s BBQ of local beef burgers. I’ve had homemade ketchup and relish made with produce from local stands, and canned peaches from trees growing out of the side of my house. I have milked a cow and drunk the milk an hour later, and hated it.

I will never recover from moving away from the organic farm across the street. There’s nothing in the world like free range organic eggs that were laid that very day, or waking up to find a pail of greens on the front porch, enjoying this simple fare while watching the sheep graze.

I can relate to the authors learning to appreciate local fare after eating the same thing day in and day out. Our own vintage apple tree dropped a wheelbarrow of apples every day for nearly two months. And I can appreciate fighting off other creatures for my share. In our case, it was five different kinds of bees and wasps, worms, and raccoons. I miss my apples now.

It was nice to be reminded of the times when I was close to my food. One year, our pear tree produced one pear, but it was the biggest pear I have ever seen. I’m not kidding, it was bigger than my hand, and I don’t have small hands.

If only I had taken my mother’s cue and raised my boys on local food. I did try, and we eat some local foods, but I admit, I was seduced by the chance to try something new and different. I’ve always been the type to try new things, so why would food be any different? Not to mention convenience. Who wants to drive around the countryside looking for local food when you have everything you need at one store?

I do.

I don’t see me becoming a strict locavore anytime soon, but I promise to do more countryside shopping in the future. I had forgotten how important that is.

Pool Party

That wasn’t the main purpose, but that’s how it ended for the
host and me.

Newcomers Club has their year end potluck every June. This year it was
at Nanci’s. Her gorgeous home filled end to end with tables of all
kinds and women forty and up, some ridiculously adorned, vying for the
highest praise in the crazy hat competition, everything from a
long-necked bird to kitchen gadgets.

Mine was a halo. Everyone thought it was very appropriate. I hope it
wasn’t because it was made of toilet paper that I had twisted then
knit into a band and pinned together with my vintage rhinestone flower.

The nice thing about having a party of about forty-five women is that
we all help to clean up. Nanci inherited a few items not claimed by
anyone, and her floors were a mess, but almost everything else was had
been washed and dried and put away before everyone left.

Then came the best part. It had been years since I’d been in a sauna.
We sat on the “fat butt” benched, reclined, and talked about the party
and family and living in the country; then dashed out into the cool
air and into the cold pool.

Brrrr doesn’t quite cover it. It was just plain freezing. But only for
a minute. Then it was just cold. And it felt great.

We did the whole process over again, sat outside and chatted, feeling
comfortably warm in jacket weather, inside for a glass of water, and
home.

My neck hadn’t felt that good in a long time, and, as Nanci promised,
I slept very well.

These little diversions are what help me live through my reality. I
just got off the phone with my oldest. He sounds flat. Like a kid in a
war zone. Like a redeemed child soldier. He found crack in the
bathroom of the homeless shelter, there was a commotion, people got
kicked out, some left. Now he wants to find a shower he can use
without risk of assault.

I feel a slight tinge of guilt, but I know that my son’s homelessness
is not my choice. That’s the part that really stings.